Well, my adventure here in Nigeria is coming to an end. It was a great experience and I'm a little sad to be leaving. There are so many places we didn't get to visit and so many things we didn't get to so, since this visit was primarily to celebrate Yinka's mum's birthday.
This will not be my final post, as I will be posting the pictures from my trip once I am back in the states. I'll probably have some afterthoughts to share as well.
So, for tonight's posting, I'll focus on some of the major highlights of my trip.
1. I had the opportunity to meet Yinka's family.
Although Yinka lives in the states, the majority of his family lives elsewhere. Everyone was in Nigeria to celebrate his mum's birthday, so I met his mum, all of his siblings and their significant others, a lot of aunties and uncles, cousins, and so many friends. It was nice to meet people who Yinka has spent the majority of his life around. The blessing is that everyone has been so welcoming, I've felt like I've been on vacation with my own biological family for the past week.
2. I visited the Motherland.
On some level, I've always had an interest in the African continent. I always thought I would visit one day, but never truly believed it would happen. I wasn't too keen on flying across the Atlantic Ocean, so flying here was a bit overwhelming. I guess things happen in life that push closer to our dreams and force us to conquer our fears. A year ago when Yinka and I first started talking about me taking a trip to Nigeria, from my mouth I stated that I was going to take the trip, but in my mind I definitely had no intentions to take this trip. Oh, but time made a change and as God would have it, I actually visited the Motherland AND I have hopes to visit again, Nigeria and other countries, as well.
3. I've experienced life in a different culture.
Nigeria is quite different than home, but not in a bad way, just in a different way. I had to adjust to variable electricity and water issues. On most days, the electric went out at some point, but there was only one day when we lost power completely. Because of the heat, the power losses tested one's faith, but I gained quite an appreciation for the Nigerian experience. Prior to this experience, I had no clue what it meant to rely on a generator for daily use as a power source and I definitely had never seen an invertor. I'm thankful and I wish we, as Americans, didn't take the things we had for granted so much!
The people here are quite ambitious...there are small businesses (in some shape or form) everywhere you go. I'm not saying I would buy something from everyone here, but I give people credit for having drive. In addition to ambition, people here in Lagos are quite stylish (I'm bringing some Africa attire and fabric back with me). I will definitely have to step up my game the next time I come here...
I also had some interesting food experiences. Last night I ate snail, which wasn't all that bad, a bit chewy, but rather tasty. Throughout the week, I've been challenged to try new things...there is very little fresh milk here, so I had powdered milk with my cereal in the mornings. This was especially difficult for me since I only drink skim milk, but I survived. The other dishes I had were okra soup, goat stew, fried rice, jollof rice, moi-moi, meat pies, bangar (??) soup, eba, and pounded yam. Some things liked a lot, others were just so-so, but I didn't go hungry and am getting some recipes to take back to the states with me. I've gotta cook for my man, you know.
I'll post more of the highlights of the trip once I'm back in the states. I may post briefly tomorrow because I don't leave until midnight Nigeran time (6pm EST). We'll see how the day progresses though.
It's been a great trip. I'm so grateful to God for this opportunity. Please keep us in your prayers tomorrow as we begin our journey back to the states. Please pray for God's mercy and protection as we travel.
Best!
-DMW
Monday, November 29, 2010
Sunday, November 28, 2010
It's Party Time...Oh It's Party Time...Party!
Today was the birthday party for Yinka's mum, so I had quite a busy day!
The alarm clock went off at 5:30 because the guys needed to move the drinks and supplies to the party location. I was able to sleep in a little, but there was much to be done this morning (i.e. I needed to iron Yinka and I's clothes for today). We went to church with Mummy...there was a Thanksgiving celebration for her as a part of the service. Now, I should stick a pin it right there...
Church here was a bit different than back home. The tithes and offering were definitely more festive than at home...nearly everyone danced down the aisles...they was marching y'all like I do when I be ushering! We also marched around the church, sang songs, and had prayer with Mummy during the Thanksgiving celebration. At home, we don't really do that, we simply sing Happy Birthday to You on a good day and move on.
I really wish I could upload pictures from this morning's service...I was looking sharp with my traditional outfit and gele (headwrap). Yinka had on a matching outfit, actually all of us had on matching outfits, but I'd like to believe that our matching outfits were something special. I will definitely post the pictures once I get back to the states. I have to learn how to tie a gele at some point because it looked really nice with my outfit.
After church we took a few pictures with Yinka's family, and then headed to the PARTY! There were so many people (that seems to be the case everywhere I go here). There was music, singing, dancing, food, and meeting a lot of new people. I'll admit by the end I was a bit tired and irritable, but that's because it's been a long day (it's 10pm here) and there are just so many personalities to deal with here in Nigeria. In that way it's an interesting culture. I'm learning that people are quite sensitive to things we wouldn't even think twice about in the states. That's life though, so I don't even worry about it.
Either way, we danced with Mummy who sprayed me and Yinka's niece with money while we on the dance floor. Spraying with money is a Nigerian tradition. I've got a few pictures to prove that I was actually on the dancefloor...I'll try to post those as well.
So, I'll be signing off now. The mosquitoes managed to get in the living room tonight and I can't take them. Plus, I'm a bit exhausted from today. Two more days left here in Naija. The time has gone by quite fast...I can't believe I'll be back tot the grind on Thursday. Ah, let's not think about that right now though.
Thank God for another great day in our Motherland!
-DMW
The alarm clock went off at 5:30 because the guys needed to move the drinks and supplies to the party location. I was able to sleep in a little, but there was much to be done this morning (i.e. I needed to iron Yinka and I's clothes for today). We went to church with Mummy...there was a Thanksgiving celebration for her as a part of the service. Now, I should stick a pin it right there...
Church here was a bit different than back home. The tithes and offering were definitely more festive than at home...nearly everyone danced down the aisles...they was marching y'all like I do when I be ushering! We also marched around the church, sang songs, and had prayer with Mummy during the Thanksgiving celebration. At home, we don't really do that, we simply sing Happy Birthday to You on a good day and move on.
I really wish I could upload pictures from this morning's service...I was looking sharp with my traditional outfit and gele (headwrap). Yinka had on a matching outfit, actually all of us had on matching outfits, but I'd like to believe that our matching outfits were something special. I will definitely post the pictures once I get back to the states. I have to learn how to tie a gele at some point because it looked really nice with my outfit.
After church we took a few pictures with Yinka's family, and then headed to the PARTY! There were so many people (that seems to be the case everywhere I go here). There was music, singing, dancing, food, and meeting a lot of new people. I'll admit by the end I was a bit tired and irritable, but that's because it's been a long day (it's 10pm here) and there are just so many personalities to deal with here in Nigeria. In that way it's an interesting culture. I'm learning that people are quite sensitive to things we wouldn't even think twice about in the states. That's life though, so I don't even worry about it.
Either way, we danced with Mummy who sprayed me and Yinka's niece with money while we on the dance floor. Spraying with money is a Nigerian tradition. I've got a few pictures to prove that I was actually on the dancefloor...I'll try to post those as well.
So, I'll be signing off now. The mosquitoes managed to get in the living room tonight and I can't take them. Plus, I'm a bit exhausted from today. Two more days left here in Naija. The time has gone by quite fast...I can't believe I'll be back tot the grind on Thursday. Ah, let's not think about that right now though.
Thank God for another great day in our Motherland!
-DMW
Saturday, November 27, 2010
My Saturday in Naija...
Ekale! (That would be "Good Evening" in Yoruba.)
We spent most of the day preparing for tomorrow's party. This morning we went to the hall where tomorrow's birthday party will be held to look at the decorations and make sure things were moving in a forward direction.
After that, we visited with a friend of Yinka's family for lunch. I must say that his cook prepared some of the best Nigerian food I've ever tasted. I wanted to ask for his recipes, but thought it may be a bit inappropriate. We had real pounded yam...all I've ever tasted before was from an instant flour (much like our instant potatoes), efo (spinach in a red sauce), beef, and fried rice. We also had meat pies and cookies. The home of the friend was absolutely beautiful...it was one of the nicest homes I've seen since I've been here in Nigeria, and honestly, was more beautiful than most homes I've seen in the states. Most of the houses I've visited here have marble floors and massive rooms. My bedroom, which is not the master bedroom, has a king-sized bed, a sofa, and its own bathroom. Actually all of the bedrooms in the house here basically have the same layout (bed, sitting space, and bathroom). It's quite nice!
After lunch, we came back to the house and Yinka's niece and I put together the favor bags for tomorrow's party. In comparison to the Nigerians, we Americans have no clue when it comes to hosting a party and giving our guests the royal treatment. Each of the guests will get a bag that contains a Bible, notebook, calendar, bookmark, folder, and ink pen. It should be noted that each of these items is custom, and most contain pictures. Although I haven't attended the birthday party yet, I think it will be on a different scale than most birthday parties for the everyday person back in the states.
Lastly, I got my dresses today. And...they still fit...what a sigh of relief. I will get up early tomorrow to iron my dress for church and make sure everything is ready to go. So, with that being said, I'm going to turn in early tonight (it's 10:30 here). I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow.
I pray that each of you has a wonderful Sunday!
-DMW
We spent most of the day preparing for tomorrow's party. This morning we went to the hall where tomorrow's birthday party will be held to look at the decorations and make sure things were moving in a forward direction.
After that, we visited with a friend of Yinka's family for lunch. I must say that his cook prepared some of the best Nigerian food I've ever tasted. I wanted to ask for his recipes, but thought it may be a bit inappropriate. We had real pounded yam...all I've ever tasted before was from an instant flour (much like our instant potatoes), efo (spinach in a red sauce), beef, and fried rice. We also had meat pies and cookies. The home of the friend was absolutely beautiful...it was one of the nicest homes I've seen since I've been here in Nigeria, and honestly, was more beautiful than most homes I've seen in the states. Most of the houses I've visited here have marble floors and massive rooms. My bedroom, which is not the master bedroom, has a king-sized bed, a sofa, and its own bathroom. Actually all of the bedrooms in the house here basically have the same layout (bed, sitting space, and bathroom). It's quite nice!
After lunch, we came back to the house and Yinka's niece and I put together the favor bags for tomorrow's party. In comparison to the Nigerians, we Americans have no clue when it comes to hosting a party and giving our guests the royal treatment. Each of the guests will get a bag that contains a Bible, notebook, calendar, bookmark, folder, and ink pen. It should be noted that each of these items is custom, and most contain pictures. Although I haven't attended the birthday party yet, I think it will be on a different scale than most birthday parties for the everyday person back in the states.
Lastly, I got my dresses today. And...they still fit...what a sigh of relief. I will get up early tomorrow to iron my dress for church and make sure everything is ready to go. So, with that being said, I'm going to turn in early tonight (it's 10:30 here). I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow.
I pray that each of you has a wonderful Sunday!
-DMW
Friday, November 26, 2010
My Nigerian Thanksgiving: Spaghetti, Turkey Wings, and Dancing the Night Away
Well, Thanksgiving has come and gone, and my day wasn't all that bad.
I made spaghetti (completely from scratch) for everyone and Yinka's sister-in-law fried turkey wings (they were so good!), so I had a little bit of turkey on Thanksgiving day. I should probably elaborate on the spaghetti a bit because I've never made it quite like this before. Because I was unable to find spaghetti sauce here, I had to make it from scratch...that would be something I've never done before. So, I combined 2 cans of whole tomatoes, 1 can of tomato paste, a bit of vegetable oil (didn't have a measuring cup so just poured to my heart's content), 2 small onions, several cloves of garlic, 4 sugar cubes, 1 chicken boullion cube, thyme, curry, salt, and black pepper. For the meat, we had shrimp, shredded beef, and chicken frankfurters...I know this seems like an odd combination, but you have to work with what you've got. As we all know, life doesn't always run smoothly here, so in the middle of preparing the dish, the estove ran out of gas. Fortunately, we were able to go and get the tank refilled so dinner went on as planned after a slight delay (1-2 hours). Either way, everyone said the spaghetti tasted good, and I must admit I was pleasantly surprised myself. Yinka made sure everyone had some, and was quick to say it was a delicious dish. You gotta love him...actually all jokes aside, Yinka and his family have made my trip here wonderful! Whenever it seems like a may be feeling a bit down, someone always ask if everything is alright. His sister and sister-in-laws are so friendly and welcoming...I've spent a lot of evenings just sitting around talking to them, learning more about the Nigerian culture. In fact, I think I'm going to a wedding tomorrow with them...we'll see though because this was a completely last-minute decision. One note about Nigeria, you don't necessarily have to receive an official invitation to a wedding to actually attend, it's just a big community gathering that people all feel welcome to attend...it's not considered crashing a wedding.
Anyway back to the real story...after Operation Thanksgiving Dinner was accomplished, we all went out dancing. I haven't stayed out that late dancing in a long time...words cannot describe how great the band was. Unlike many acts back in the states, this band played continuously the whole night...they switched out musicians and lead singers at times, but there was non-stop music. They played everything, pop, R&B, and traditional African music. The crowd was quite diverse too. Because we were in Victoria Island, there were a number of ex-pats there, which was quite comforting, since I really have reached the place where I'm somewhat ready to be back at home. Needless to say, I slept in this morning after hanging out all night yesterday.
Today is going to be a low key day for me. I just want to relax around the house...perhaps I'll go out somewhere a later in the evening, but for now, I'm just going to read and watch TV.
If I have time, I may post later today. We'll see how things progress.
-DMW
I made spaghetti (completely from scratch) for everyone and Yinka's sister-in-law fried turkey wings (they were so good!), so I had a little bit of turkey on Thanksgiving day. I should probably elaborate on the spaghetti a bit because I've never made it quite like this before. Because I was unable to find spaghetti sauce here, I had to make it from scratch...that would be something I've never done before. So, I combined 2 cans of whole tomatoes, 1 can of tomato paste, a bit of vegetable oil (didn't have a measuring cup so just poured to my heart's content), 2 small onions, several cloves of garlic, 4 sugar cubes, 1 chicken boullion cube, thyme, curry, salt, and black pepper. For the meat, we had shrimp, shredded beef, and chicken frankfurters...I know this seems like an odd combination, but you have to work with what you've got. As we all know, life doesn't always run smoothly here, so in the middle of preparing the dish, the estove ran out of gas. Fortunately, we were able to go and get the tank refilled so dinner went on as planned after a slight delay (1-2 hours). Either way, everyone said the spaghetti tasted good, and I must admit I was pleasantly surprised myself. Yinka made sure everyone had some, and was quick to say it was a delicious dish. You gotta love him...actually all jokes aside, Yinka and his family have made my trip here wonderful! Whenever it seems like a may be feeling a bit down, someone always ask if everything is alright. His sister and sister-in-laws are so friendly and welcoming...I've spent a lot of evenings just sitting around talking to them, learning more about the Nigerian culture. In fact, I think I'm going to a wedding tomorrow with them...we'll see though because this was a completely last-minute decision. One note about Nigeria, you don't necessarily have to receive an official invitation to a wedding to actually attend, it's just a big community gathering that people all feel welcome to attend...it's not considered crashing a wedding.
Anyway back to the real story...after Operation Thanksgiving Dinner was accomplished, we all went out dancing. I haven't stayed out that late dancing in a long time...words cannot describe how great the band was. Unlike many acts back in the states, this band played continuously the whole night...they switched out musicians and lead singers at times, but there was non-stop music. They played everything, pop, R&B, and traditional African music. The crowd was quite diverse too. Because we were in Victoria Island, there were a number of ex-pats there, which was quite comforting, since I really have reached the place where I'm somewhat ready to be back at home. Needless to say, I slept in this morning after hanging out all night yesterday.
Today is going to be a low key day for me. I just want to relax around the house...perhaps I'll go out somewhere a later in the evening, but for now, I'm just going to read and watch TV.
If I have time, I may post later today. We'll see how things progress.
-DMW
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Art Shopping...
So, it's 6pm here (12 noon EST) and we got back from the market a little over an hour ago...I guess you're all probably getting ready to feast on turkey right about now...I'll make my spaghetti soon...
Anyway, I had a blast shopping today and got so much artwork for so cheap...I was able to get 5 canvas prints, 6 paper prints, 5 sculptures, and 3 necklaces for less than $200 (let us not all start requesting pieces though). For the paintings, they are all high quality paints (oil and acrylic) and I likely couldn't have purchased any of the canvases (sofa-size) for under $300 a piece in the states, so I got a great deal. We really can't buy anything else to bring back with us because they have restrictions on the number of pieces that can be taken out of the country, but if I could...ah, trust and believe, I would be purchasing more pieces for the home that I hope to one day own.
The best part of the trip was negotiating the prices. Yinka handled most of it because he speaks the native language. When I speak, everyone knows I'm American and they instantly know I have limited experience in bargaining. So, the artist would say something costs 15,000 Naira ($100 US Dollars), and I would tell Yinka..."No, no, no...that's too much!" True enough, in most cases the offered prices was not too much, but why pay that price when no one else is...
He would then negotiate the prices down...in most instances, I was sitting on the side still complaining that something was too high, or pulling out my phone so I could convert nairas to dollars (I looked a little foolish doing this, but I had to get the figures right in my head...this is money we're talking about, and I'm frugal as everyone already knows). At times, Yinka would be like, "C'mon, we have to give them this...that's a fair price" so I would pay and be appreciative for the good deal.
We probably stayed at the market for 2 hours or so. We hired a driver to take us because we didn't really know our way to and around the market. The driver was great and he got us there safely, even though we had a flat tire along the way...as you probably know by now...driving is always an adventure, one never knows what will be seen or what will happen.
Tonight, we may go hear a band play at a local social spot...it all depends on how much energy everyone has in a bit. It's been quite hot today, as the electricity has been off most of the day. We've been using the invertor for the majority of the day, but it does not power the A/C, so today's been hotter in the house than any other day. But we've had lights, water, and TV for the majority of the day, so I'm thankful for that. The invertor ran out of stored energy for an hour or so leaving us with absolutely no power, but that's when we ran out to the market, so I was fine.
Anyway, it's time to do a bit of cooking. Eat some turkey for me!
-DMW
Anyway, I had a blast shopping today and got so much artwork for so cheap...I was able to get 5 canvas prints, 6 paper prints, 5 sculptures, and 3 necklaces for less than $200 (let us not all start requesting pieces though). For the paintings, they are all high quality paints (oil and acrylic) and I likely couldn't have purchased any of the canvases (sofa-size) for under $300 a piece in the states, so I got a great deal. We really can't buy anything else to bring back with us because they have restrictions on the number of pieces that can be taken out of the country, but if I could...ah, trust and believe, I would be purchasing more pieces for the home that I hope to one day own.
The best part of the trip was negotiating the prices. Yinka handled most of it because he speaks the native language. When I speak, everyone knows I'm American and they instantly know I have limited experience in bargaining. So, the artist would say something costs 15,000 Naira ($100 US Dollars), and I would tell Yinka..."No, no, no...that's too much!" True enough, in most cases the offered prices was not too much, but why pay that price when no one else is...
He would then negotiate the prices down...in most instances, I was sitting on the side still complaining that something was too high, or pulling out my phone so I could convert nairas to dollars (I looked a little foolish doing this, but I had to get the figures right in my head...this is money we're talking about, and I'm frugal as everyone already knows). At times, Yinka would be like, "C'mon, we have to give them this...that's a fair price" so I would pay and be appreciative for the good deal.
We probably stayed at the market for 2 hours or so. We hired a driver to take us because we didn't really know our way to and around the market. The driver was great and he got us there safely, even though we had a flat tire along the way...as you probably know by now...driving is always an adventure, one never knows what will be seen or what will happen.
Tonight, we may go hear a band play at a local social spot...it all depends on how much energy everyone has in a bit. It's been quite hot today, as the electricity has been off most of the day. We've been using the invertor for the majority of the day, but it does not power the A/C, so today's been hotter in the house than any other day. But we've had lights, water, and TV for the majority of the day, so I'm thankful for that. The invertor ran out of stored energy for an hour or so leaving us with absolutely no power, but that's when we ran out to the market, so I was fine.
Anyway, it's time to do a bit of cooking. Eat some turkey for me!
-DMW
Missing Home Today...
I thought today would be just another day here, but I must admit I'm missing home a little bit today. It's kind of weird to wake up and not think about where I'm going for Thanksgiving dinner. I want nothing more today than some greens, macaroni and cheese, a little bit of turkey, and Aunt Dulcie's homemade rolls. Yinka's brother and sister told everyone that they have to make sure I have fun today, and we should have a big dinner tonight just for me. We'll see how things progress throughout the day. Usually when we go out, we end up on the road much longer than anticipated which always seems to put a wrench in dinner plans.
This afternoon Yinka and I are going to an art market. Hopefully, I can pick up a few pieces to bring back with me for my parents, some friends, and myself. Everything is so expensive here in Lagos though...last night I paid $20 for some things at a Wal-Mart type store that would've cost me $8-$10 back in the states. Lagos is definitely the New York City of Nigeria. I will defintiely have to negotiate the prices down at the market...I refuse to pay all the asking price for anything...negotiation is just how it's done here.
Anyway, we're watching a Nigerian movie right now, so I'm going to get back to it.
I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving. I'll be thinking of you, and looking forward to having my own variation of a Thanksgiving dinner here. Perhaps with a little persuasion, I can get my family to make me a "Thanksgiving Dinner" on Wednesday when I return to the states...let's all pray on that one.
Let day 5 begin...
_DMW
This afternoon Yinka and I are going to an art market. Hopefully, I can pick up a few pieces to bring back with me for my parents, some friends, and myself. Everything is so expensive here in Lagos though...last night I paid $20 for some things at a Wal-Mart type store that would've cost me $8-$10 back in the states. Lagos is definitely the New York City of Nigeria. I will defintiely have to negotiate the prices down at the market...I refuse to pay all the asking price for anything...negotiation is just how it's done here.
Anyway, we're watching a Nigerian movie right now, so I'm going to get back to it.
I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving. I'll be thinking of you, and looking forward to having my own variation of a Thanksgiving dinner here. Perhaps with a little persuasion, I can get my family to make me a "Thanksgiving Dinner" on Wednesday when I return to the states...let's all pray on that one.
Let day 5 begin...
_DMW
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Thanksgiving in Nigeria?
Well, today is day 4 in Nigeria and I have absolutely no regrets about my trip so far.
I felt a little rough last night after having some fast food...I think I'll stick to homecooked or traditional meals from a restaurant for the rest of my time here.
I spent today with the girls...we went to get fitted for our dresses for the party on Sunday, all of which fit well to my delight. I got two extra dresses and a shirt made. I've gotta be honest, I thought one of them looked like something from the first Thanksgiving, and I just couldn't take it. I asked the lady to redo the dress because it really just wasn't something I'd wear...we all know I'm a bit conservative and picky. My future sister-in-laws are trying to convert me to a highly fashionable Nigerian woman. Everyone here has long-flowing Brazilian hair...I on the other hand, tend to be a natural sistah, and would love to have some double-stranded twists in this heat...but I digress. Back to today's happenings...
After the dress fittings, we went to the mall and movies. Sadly, I can't even tell you the name of the movie, but it was American and quite entertaining. Shortly, I will begin to settle down for the evening. I say this because at night (well really at anytime), the electricity goes out and the invertor or generator is used to power the house. It's the normal way of life here, for the most part, every business and home has its own generator. When the electricity is out, you have to be very strategic because the water has to be heated in advance and the pressure tends to drop. I'm pretty used to this though...so I really don't think about it much, just thought it would be an interesting element of my trip to share.
Anyway, tomorrow is Thanksgiving back in the States, but not here in Naija...So...I've decided to fix an American dish for everyone for dinner tomorrow, and then we're going out to hear some live music.
Well, here's to another great day in the Motherland. I will miss spending the Thanksgiving holiday with everyone tomorrow, but am grateful for the wonderful experience I am having here. All things considered, I don't mind missing the holiday for this.
I hope to post again tomorrow, but if not, know that all is well here.
-DMW
I felt a little rough last night after having some fast food...I think I'll stick to homecooked or traditional meals from a restaurant for the rest of my time here.
I spent today with the girls...we went to get fitted for our dresses for the party on Sunday, all of which fit well to my delight. I got two extra dresses and a shirt made. I've gotta be honest, I thought one of them looked like something from the first Thanksgiving, and I just couldn't take it. I asked the lady to redo the dress because it really just wasn't something I'd wear...we all know I'm a bit conservative and picky. My future sister-in-laws are trying to convert me to a highly fashionable Nigerian woman. Everyone here has long-flowing Brazilian hair...I on the other hand, tend to be a natural sistah, and would love to have some double-stranded twists in this heat...but I digress. Back to today's happenings...
After the dress fittings, we went to the mall and movies. Sadly, I can't even tell you the name of the movie, but it was American and quite entertaining. Shortly, I will begin to settle down for the evening. I say this because at night (well really at anytime), the electricity goes out and the invertor or generator is used to power the house. It's the normal way of life here, for the most part, every business and home has its own generator. When the electricity is out, you have to be very strategic because the water has to be heated in advance and the pressure tends to drop. I'm pretty used to this though...so I really don't think about it much, just thought it would be an interesting element of my trip to share.
Anyway, tomorrow is Thanksgiving back in the States, but not here in Naija...So...I've decided to fix an American dish for everyone for dinner tomorrow, and then we're going out to hear some live music.
Well, here's to another great day in the Motherland. I will miss spending the Thanksgiving holiday with everyone tomorrow, but am grateful for the wonderful experience I am having here. All things considered, I don't mind missing the holiday for this.
I hope to post again tomorrow, but if not, know that all is well here.
-DMW
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Sweet Home Nigeria!
If I knew a Nigerian song, I would sing and play my guitar for you right now! That's just how much I've embraced this experience.
My trip here has been such a great one...I have absolutely no regrets!
Today, we went to Victoria Island...this is a beautiful tourist place. This is where Chevron and other oil companies are located, and there are so many ex-pats that live there. The school is attended by mainly America students, so one of the family friends thought it would be a great idea to take me to see the school. After my visit, I would agree. One of the teachers told us about some places we should definitely see before I leave...we're going to work on that!
It seems like my time is already running out, even though I've only been here for 48 hours.
Anyway...I'm extremely tired tonight...I've had a few stomach issues today, so I plan to go to bed a little earlier. So with that, I'll post later.
-DMW
My trip here has been such a great one...I have absolutely no regrets!
Today, we went to Victoria Island...this is a beautiful tourist place. This is where Chevron and other oil companies are located, and there are so many ex-pats that live there. The school is attended by mainly America students, so one of the family friends thought it would be a great idea to take me to see the school. After my visit, I would agree. One of the teachers told us about some places we should definitely see before I leave...we're going to work on that!
It seems like my time is already running out, even though I've only been here for 48 hours.
Anyway...I'm extremely tired tonight...I've had a few stomach issues today, so I plan to go to bed a little earlier. So with that, I'll post later.
-DMW
Limited Internet Access
So, I'm a little frustrated with Verizon right now. I have no internet access on my phone, so I'm not able to check my e-mail or post as frequently as I would like to.
Trust me, there is much to tell about my adventures here...
Yesterday, Yinka's mother came over for her birthday dinner. There was so much food...white rice, jollof rice, fried rice, chicken, spicy beef, moi-moi, and cake. We had a good time dancing, laughing, and showing his mum much love.
Yesterday was the first time I met Yinka's mum, and she was so kind to me. It's quite obvious that her gentle spirit lies within each of her children.
Other than the birthday dinner, we went to a shopping center with a few of Yinka's friends, and I got to ride around the island for a bit yesterday.
Today, we're going to see an American International School, and then off to the market to do some shopping. I want to buy some artwork and fabric. I've also seen a number of Nigerian treats that I plan to bring back to share with everyone. Tomorrow...I'm going to see the seamstress to try on my dresses for the big birthday celebration for Yinka's mom on Sunday...can we all pray that I fit into this dress...if it doesn't fit, who knows what I'll do.
So, that's about it for this posting. I'm having a great time do far...it's so weird, life is quite different here, but in some ways it also feels much like home.
I hope to post again tonight or Thursday, so be sure to check back in to see what's going on over here with me!
Peace & Blessings,
DMW
Trust me, there is much to tell about my adventures here...
Yesterday, Yinka's mother came over for her birthday dinner. There was so much food...white rice, jollof rice, fried rice, chicken, spicy beef, moi-moi, and cake. We had a good time dancing, laughing, and showing his mum much love.
Yesterday was the first time I met Yinka's mum, and she was so kind to me. It's quite obvious that her gentle spirit lies within each of her children.
Other than the birthday dinner, we went to a shopping center with a few of Yinka's friends, and I got to ride around the island for a bit yesterday.
Today, we're going to see an American International School, and then off to the market to do some shopping. I want to buy some artwork and fabric. I've also seen a number of Nigerian treats that I plan to bring back to share with everyone. Tomorrow...I'm going to see the seamstress to try on my dresses for the big birthday celebration for Yinka's mom on Sunday...can we all pray that I fit into this dress...if it doesn't fit, who knows what I'll do.
So, that's about it for this posting. I'm having a great time do far...it's so weird, life is quite different here, but in some ways it also feels much like home.
I hope to post again tonight or Thursday, so be sure to check back in to see what's going on over here with me!
Peace & Blessings,
DMW
My First Sense of Nigeria...
So I landed around 5:30, but we're just getting to the house.
I've seen some pretty amazing things already. When I got out of the plane, the heat and humidity was shocking! It feels like the middle of a Maryland August. It's so steamy...shortly after we landed in came the rain and thinder. Thank God we were able to land safely before the storms arrived!
The airport itself is quite interesting. It was like nothing I've experienced at home. There were masses (and I truly mean masses) of people standing outside when we walked out the door. There were so many people that it was quite difficult to move our luggage carts to the curb where Yinka's brothers were picking us up. There were guards walking around amongst the crowd with rifles on their shoulders and people were constantly trying to "help" you get to your vehicle (for a tip of course). This was a different experience for me to say the least. The great thing about it all though is that Yinka and his brothers are very protective, so one of them was with us and one was in the vehicle the whole time just to make sure we were safe. Never did I feel threatened or worried, rather I was just in shock. I'm quickly learning that the constant hustle and crowd of people is just the NIgerian way, or perhaps the Lagos way.
Everyone drives like a maniac here...only the fit survive (Mom Putt would never make it). Trying to get folks to stop blowing their horns is a dream. Just a note about driving here...some streets have absolutely no lines, so people drive everywhere (4-5 cars across the two lane road!). And truthfully, on the roads with lines, people still drive everywhere. And the most jaw-droping thing...the taxi vans speed by with people literally hanging out the doors. When I saw this, I was like..."This pure craziness!" I will take some pictures to post...that may not be until I return though since I just discovered my phone has no camera :-(
Anyway, I've seen a lot of great things in the past few hours as well. We went to a mall that looked much like a shopping center in the U.S...I managed to get some KFC for dinner while I was there. The city skyline in Lagos is pretty fabulous too.
With that, i'm going to sign off for the night. It's 10:45 pm here. I will admit that this week is going to be more adventurous and exciting than I ever imagined.
-DMW
I've seen some pretty amazing things already. When I got out of the plane, the heat and humidity was shocking! It feels like the middle of a Maryland August. It's so steamy...shortly after we landed in came the rain and thinder. Thank God we were able to land safely before the storms arrived!
The airport itself is quite interesting. It was like nothing I've experienced at home. There were masses (and I truly mean masses) of people standing outside when we walked out the door. There were so many people that it was quite difficult to move our luggage carts to the curb where Yinka's brothers were picking us up. There were guards walking around amongst the crowd with rifles on their shoulders and people were constantly trying to "help" you get to your vehicle (for a tip of course). This was a different experience for me to say the least. The great thing about it all though is that Yinka and his brothers are very protective, so one of them was with us and one was in the vehicle the whole time just to make sure we were safe. Never did I feel threatened or worried, rather I was just in shock. I'm quickly learning that the constant hustle and crowd of people is just the NIgerian way, or perhaps the Lagos way.
Everyone drives like a maniac here...only the fit survive (Mom Putt would never make it). Trying to get folks to stop blowing their horns is a dream. Just a note about driving here...some streets have absolutely no lines, so people drive everywhere (4-5 cars across the two lane road!). And truthfully, on the roads with lines, people still drive everywhere. And the most jaw-droping thing...the taxi vans speed by with people literally hanging out the doors. When I saw this, I was like..."This pure craziness!" I will take some pictures to post...that may not be until I return though since I just discovered my phone has no camera :-(
Anyway, I've seen a lot of great things in the past few hours as well. We went to a mall that looked much like a shopping center in the U.S...I managed to get some KFC for dinner while I was there. The city skyline in Lagos is pretty fabulous too.
With that, i'm going to sign off for the night. It's 10:45 pm here. I will admit that this week is going to be more adventurous and exciting than I ever imagined.
-DMW
Saturday, November 20, 2010
I'm in Paris!
I'm so grateful to God for allowing me to make it safely across the Atlantic Ocean to Paris! There were several patches of turbulent air along the way, and those of you who know me can understand what I was feeling in those times, but I survived. The good thing is the DC-Paris leg of the flight is the longest, so I'm on the shorter end of this today's trip.
So, it's 7am here now. I have a few more hours until our next flight leaves for Lagos, Nigeria. I'm hoping to get a nap in...I only slept for an hour or so on the plane even with the meds from the doctor. I'm going to take a Tylenol PM in a few...cuz right now is my American sleeping time.
That's it for now. I'll try to post once I land in Nigeria so everyone will know I made it safely!
Peace & Blessings
~DMW
So, it's 7am here now. I have a few more hours until our next flight leaves for Lagos, Nigeria. I'm hoping to get a nap in...I only slept for an hour or so on the plane even with the meds from the doctor. I'm going to take a Tylenol PM in a few...cuz right now is my American sleeping time.
That's it for now. I'll try to post once I land in Nigeria so everyone will know I made it safely!
Peace & Blessings
~DMW
Friday, November 19, 2010
The trip of a lifetime...
So, I've decided to blog about my trip to Africa as a way to stay connected to my friends and family while I'm gone. I hope to post at least once a day starting to let folks know what I'm up to. As for now...I have to finish packing tonight and try to get some rest. I'm beyond nervous about the flight, so I'm quite focused on trying to remain calm. I've decided to just leave things in the Lord's hands and I know I'll be alright.
My prayer is that this is a wonderful trip that provides a lifetime of lasting memories. All of your prayers for my safety and sanity as I travel are much appreciated.
~DMW
My prayer is that this is a wonderful trip that provides a lifetime of lasting memories. All of your prayers for my safety and sanity as I travel are much appreciated.
~DMW
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